The Best Kind Of News.

Milo’s Story

The day I found out I was pregnant was an amazing but tough day. I had just eaten goats cheese and smoked salmon on toast, after a weekend away on the Guinness in Dublin, so it honestly wasn’t expected.

I’d always wanted to plan a surprise if we were lucky enough to fall pregnant, like the ones you see on you tube. You know, some buns in the oven or a t-shirt on Halloween with a skeleton baby in my skeleton tummy. What I didn’t expect was to be making a call over FaceTime and sharing the news to Milo’s daddy thousands of miles away (3,823.1 miles to be exact – I should know I googled it enough times) because he was in the desert, the sandpit they call Kuwait. He had been there for a year. At the time I was only weeks away from making the move myself, I’d stayed behind when he left to finish renovating the house that we had bought just before he was headhunted for a job away from home.

And for those of you wondering how you can get pregnant with 3,823.1 miles between you, we did see each other approximately every three weeks and it only takes one cheeky careless moment to create a miracle. Even my cheeky dentist made the joke about who was the daddy.

I don’t remember much of the call, I remember I facetimed from the toilet. I asked him to sit down and then I said I’d something to show him. Then there were tears (mainly from me) and a lot of the f*** word (in a good way) as I tried to position a bloody iPhone camera over a positive pregnancy test. In a perfect world that’s not how I would have broken the news, but at least it gives us something to laugh about now.

We found out in October, and we were exactly 12 weeks on Christmas Eve. We were even luckier to have our twelve week scan that morning. We couldn’t have timed that better if we’d been trying, and it did make for some very special surprises on Christmas Day. I finally got the chance to be creative, although watching back the videos I wouldn’t share them with the world, they are so special to us. But I’ll talk about them another time or I’ll be here all day.

I think if I could have it any other way I’d still have done it the same. It certainly wasn’t how I’d dreamt it would happen but it’s a story to tell, and if we are lucky enough to fall pregnant again then I’ve plenty of ideas saved, and I will definitely not be doing it over FaceTime.

 

Matilda’s Story

Before becoming pregnant I had always dreamt of doing a pregnancy test, finding out it was positive and then wrapping the stick up in a little box (yeah so maybe it’s a little gross), then handing it to my husband as a gift on a romantic date and watching his super happy face as he realised what his gift meant. However it didn’t really happen like that. I ended up doing the pregnancy test while my husband was around, however it was still amazingly perfect for us to wait together for those two and a half excruciating minutes, eagerly waiting to see how many lines would show up on the test.

So I also didn’t get the dream reveal to Matilda’s daddy, however just as Milos mummy did once we found out it was positive we got to tell our families in special ways. But let’s save that for another time.

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Perfect Gifts for Teachers

Teachers work their backsides off to give our little monkeys the best chances in life. They teach them all the things that we can’t and educate them for the life ahead.
My mum was a teacher, and it didn’t mean much to me when I was little except for that last week of term…..because that was when my mum would bring home 30 boxes of chocolates and because no mummy can eat that much my brother and I would get our pick. It was like a second Easter in our house, only with no bunnies, no eggs, but lots of quality street. My mum, as much as she appreciated all the boxes of tasty chocolates would always say how nice it would be to get something other than chocolates.

Well times have changed and these days teachers get less chocolates and plenty of other things. So this got us thinking, what can you buy those lovely ladies and gentlemen who work so hard at making our tiny humans clever.

A drinking vessel – We loved this ‘I Can’t Adult Today Mug’ so much when we first came across it that we decided to stock it at Milo and Matilda. Perfect for a teacher, it’s a great way to remind them that it’s summer and they have six weeks off from being an adult! We admit it, both of us in the Milo and Matilda office use this mug, it makes it a little hard when doing the tea run, especially when we forget which one has the sugar in, but honestly we couldn’t love this mug anymore than we do right now! We are sure any teacher would feel the same.

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Chocolates – If you are going to go down the traditional route and buy a box of something cheeky, we suggest getting something special. Hotel Chocolat is known for some of the finest and tastiest chocolates. You don’t have to spend more just buy a small token. We especially love these Caramel Tiddly Pots. If I was a teacher I’d keep a box of these in my desk at all times for nibbling on demand.

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Space form are well known for there lovely little glass tokens. These are the tiny gifts that last. These are a lovely way to show a teacher that they were special to your child. We love the one below, but there are other designs available, and some come with options to personalise them also.

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Pamper Gift Basket – Teachers work hard, they deserve a cheeky bit of pampering at the end of term. This is something you can put together yourself. Buy a small basket or box, put in a relaxing candle, bottle of bubble bath or a lush bath bomb and some luscious hand cream will do the trick (a favourite of mine is this Loccitane Shea Butter one.)          If your teacher is a man this can easily be adapted to suit, throw in a black pepper scented candle, some sandalwood soap and a bottle of whiskey scented bubble bath and your on your way to gift perfection.
If you haven’t got the time to make a gift basket there are a couple of lovely companies that we have seen who create some amazing baskets, including this Organic Pamper Box designed specifically for teachers.

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Flowers – Another of the more traditional gifts, but flowers can be so much more than a bunch. Try getting something that lasts a little longer, like potted flowers or a cactus. This way the gift isn’t finished in a week and can be enjoyed for weeks to come. We have just discovered this amazing flower company Bloom & Wild, they have a range of flowers that can be delivered through the letterbox. We especially love ‘The Jamie’ as this Trio of Succulents which are long lasting look absolutely amazing. Marks and Spencer offer a slightly larger version without the cute packaging.

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We asked a couple of teachers this week what the best gift was that they received from their little ones. One said Gin, we love that.

Finally a great suggestion from one of the teachers mentioned above was a class or group present. If you and some of the other mums are close it might be nice to club together and buy a the teacher something special. A little piece of jewellery or a larger version of the pamper hamper would be a super treat for any special teacher.

Whatever you decide on, the thanks from your tiny human is more than enough to put a smile on any teachers face for the summer…..however a bottle of gin will make that smile much bigger.

We’re Going to The Zoo!

I hate zoos. I am against animals being locked in tiny cages for our amusement.
I don’t hate all zoos though, I do believe that some are genuinely in it for the conservation of animals and if they are done right the animals don’t suffer and are really well cared for. Whilst I’d still prefer the animals to be in the wild I’m not against these.
Singapore zoo is one of my favourites and having been a couple of times I highly recommend this to anyone visiting the city.

The other day a friend suggested a trip to the Yorkshire Wildlife Park. After a little research I really liked the look of it, so on bank holiday Sunday we headed down for the day.

The car park was packed and I was a little apprehensive that it may be really busy inside but honestly I didn’t think it was. They seem to have enough going on that it never felt crowded and we never spent long in a queue or waiting too see anything.

We arrived about 11am so we headed straight to grab a couple of coffees and some sandwiches to take with us and then we headed off to see some animals.
Entry was £16 for an adult and the boys were free as they are both under 2.

We saw polar bears, spider monkeys, mara’s, lions, leopards, meerkats, zebras and giraffes just to name a few. I fell in love with one of the tiny baby baboons and if I could have taken him home he would have been in Milo’s changing bag quicker than you can say ‘Safari adventure

Lunch consisted of sandwiches and mini cheddars on a picnic bench while the boys ran around the grass. Well Milo wobbled around and fell over a lot. But it was lovely, and the sun was shining making the day delightful.

We headed back to the animals and the boys watched with the most excited looks on their faces. I think Milo’s favourite animal was the spider monkey, the enclosure is open so they are just wild, swinging around the branches above you. He couldn’t get enough of them and finally dragging him away meant tears. But it wasn’t long before we were at the next stop and there was something else to make him smile.

Late afternoon the boys both fell asleep and we used that as an excuse to grab a couple of ice creams and sit in the sun.

The enclosures are huge, the animals look healthy and happy and there are plenty of viewing areas for each stop so you can see loads.
The cafes are plentiful and although it’s just your usual sandwiches, cakes and sausage roll type fare it wasn’t overly expensive and it tasted good.
There are endless areas where you can stop and grab a picnic bench and have a bite to eat. If you are more prepared than we were take a picnic with you….and don’t forget the sun cream. We covered the boys but neglected ourselves and both ended up crispy and red, rookie manoeuvre.

Before we left we headed to the monkey house soft play area (indoor) and the boys had a whale of a time monkeying around. We could have spent longer here but toddlers get tired and cranky and it was time to head back.
There is also a huge outdoor play area, we didn’t have time this trip but all the kids there looked like they were having a great time, there is so much to do here!

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I love this place, I can’t wait to return and hopefully as Milo grows he will enjoy the animals more and more. I highly recommend!!

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Milo’s Mummy x